Virginity Is A Social Construct

The Belle Jar

Jezebel published a piece today with the title “Nearly 1% Of Women Claim They Were Virgins When They Gave Birth,” and, because this is Jezebel we’re talking about here, they used this as an opportunity to shame and belittle the women who say that they became pregnant while still virgins. And just so we all understand what author Erin Gloria Ryan means by virgins, she writes that they are women who,

“… were unpenetrated by the peen of a man when they became pregnant.”

She further explains,

“This doesn’t include women who became pregnant via in vitro fertilization or artificial insemination; these are women who gave birth the old fashioned way and were like *shrug! SERIOUSLY GUYS I DON’T EVEN KNOW HOW THIS HAPPENED!”

Then (incorrectly) asserts,

“Getting pregnant without sex is virtually scientifically impossible, yet dozens of women in the study (who were teens when the…

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“Hard” Questions about Abortion

human with uterus

I ran across an anti-abortion post that said prochoice politicians are never asked “hard” questions akin to those directed at anti-abortion politicians.  They listed 10 questions, none of which I found that hard.  So I thought I’d answer them:

1. You say you support a woman’s right to make her own reproductive choices in regards to abortion and contraception. Are there any restrictions you would approve of?

I think a woman’s health and life should be paramount and that she should be able to make decisions regarding her own health and body regardless of pregnancy.  That said, if a woman seeks a therapeutic abortion for a viable fetus, I would support the removal of the fetus from her body in a way that would produce the highest likelihood of a good outcome for both.

2. In 2010, The Economist featured a cover story on “the war on girls” and the…

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